Marriage is not a union of two souls, its an intersection of two souls (Ref: Venn Digram). ONLY the common habits, common hobbies, common interests survive, rest everything stays out of the box. Even if not initially, but eventually it is pushed OUT of the box.
So which is why it is not shallow at all to seriously reconsider a marriage proposal if your passions are not common and are non negotiable, because if at all they dont match in the marriage, the life expectancy of your interests will shorten abruptly.
I know, about ' But wont you get a brand new person who loves you and cares for you in wake of giving up ONE lousy hobby!!?!'. Well you do- but thats it. And the moment u're out of your honeymoon mode, you'll need ur hobbies back !!
P.s. Dedicated to all my peeple looking for love and marriage!! :)
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